My plan would have gotten myself banned.

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I don’t think he knows exactly what he’ll do yet with this situation, but he’s probably going to mull it over this weekend and speak with the other instructors as well. In the meantime The Girl has told him that she will not dance with E at any time. Not during parties or group lessons.

It’s the dancing that has pacified me over the years. I don’t know any martial arts and there’s no way I can hurt someone too badly with a sugar push; or a brush twinkle; or a promenade chasse.

The worst part about the pinch is that I think he was aiming for one cheek but because I turned so quickly he actually got me in between…At least one other woman at the studio has expressed that she will absolutely not dance with this guy anymore. A few months ago she complained that he was deliberately “brushing” her boobs during turns. I’ve felt the same thing also with him in the past, but have been able to keep my chest far enough away from him since then. Who would have thought he would do something as obvious as this though?

At these weekly parties, the lights are low and the instructors are themselves usually all dancing with various students so it’s difficult to see relatively subtle things like this in the context of all of the movement of the various dances.

When it happened, I was so shocked that I didn’t know what I should do. Should I have made a huge scene, sat down, or gone off right away to an instructor? I ended up finishing the dance with him. I covered my butt with my hands on each turn. He didn’t attempt anything illegal again.

I didn’t tell The Boy about it until we were ready to leave for the night. I told him after I took one of the instructors aside and relayed the episode to her. She was, of course, shocked and told me she would definitely take care of it.

We stopped in last night for a group class and he was there–quiet as a mouse. We didn’t interact with him (didn’t need to). Tomorrow we’re going in to work on our Pro Am stuff with the owner of the studio and we’ll see what he has to say…

BTW The Boy (Periapex) can’t hurt a fly–only himself with axes and saws and ladders. So I don’t expect that Elio will be losing any teeth soon.

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